Thursday, December 13, 2007

walk with me

A helping hand, a shoulder to cry on,
That's what pals are for.
A smile that will cheer you up,
That's what pals are for.
Words spoken that heal the soul,
That's what pals are for.
Being yourself and expressing what's on your mind,
That's what pals are for.
Memories shared that will last a lifetime,
That's what pals are for.Thanks for being a super pal!

beware of free things!

“It is good for a man to bear the yoke of his youth.” Lam.3:27
Those who live on free things never become free.
Anything you don’t labour to get, you won’t have the sense to keep.
Your sweat reminds you of the price you paid to get whatever you have.
You can’t remember the sweat and play the careless.
Get it by yourself and you will have enough sense to manage it by yourself.
This is the reason why the Bible encourages the youth in particular to carry the yoke of his youth.
Those who fail to bear their burden today may end as a burden in their old age.
stop looking for who will carry you today because no one can carry you forever. They will soon get weary of you and drop you. Accept responsibility if you don’t want to end as liability.

the holy alphabet

This is the best..... The Holy Alphabet... This is Beautiful



Whoever came up with this one must have had some Divine guidance!



Although things are not perfect
Because of trial or pain
Continue in thanksgiving
Do not begin to blame
Even when the times are hard
Fierce winds are bound to blow
God is forever able
Hold on to what you know
Imagine life without His love
J oy would cease to be
Keep thanking Him for all the things
Love imparts to thee
Move out of "Camp Complaining"
No weapon that is known
On earth can yield the power
Praise can do alone
Quit looking at the future
Redeem the time at hand
Start every day with worship
To "thank" is a command
Until we see Him coming
Victorious in the sky
We'll run the race with gratitude
X alting God most high
Y es, there'll be good times and yes some will be bad, but...
Z ion waits in glory...where none are ever sad!

"I AM Too blessed to be stressed!" The shortest distance between a problem and a solution is the distance between your knees and the floor.
The one who kneels to the Lord can stand up to anything. Love and peace be with you forever, Amen.

Sunday, December 9, 2007

21st Century.... We are becoming lesser by the day

dont take it at heart. its just an observation made by an interllect

Our communication - Wireless

Our dress - Topless

Our telephone - Cordless

Our cooking - Fireless

Our youth - Jobless

Our food - Fatless

Our labour - Effortless

Our conduct - Worthless

Our relation - Loveless

Our attitude - Careless

Our feelings - Heartless

Our politics - Shameless

Our education - Valueless

Our follies - Countless

Our arguments - Baseless

Our Job - Thankless

Our Boss - Brainless

Our Salary - Very less

the value of a friend....

"If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you." --- Winnie the Pooh

"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." ---Charles Caleb Colton

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." "

Friendship! is one mind in two bodies." ---Mencius

"Friends are God's way of taking care of us."

"If you should die before me, ask if you could bring a friend." ---Stone Temple Pilots

"I'll lean on you and you lean on me and we'll be okay." ---dave Matthew's band

"If all my friends were to jump off ! a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be at the bottom to catch them."

"Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."

"We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere." --- Tim McGraw

"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life." ---Lee Iacocca

"Hold a true friend with both your hands." ---Nigerian Proverb

"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
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do unto others.....

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco."Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me."
"Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."
"There's something you should know the son continued,"he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us."
"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live." "No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us."
"Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live,and we can't let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own."
At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later,however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him,but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm and one leg.The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Thankfully,there's someone who won't treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.

a cry for help!

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the
feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, and all of the
others, including Love.

One day it was announced to the feelings that the
island would sink, so all repaired their boats and
left.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to
persevere until the last possible moment.

When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to
ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love
said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness
answered, "No I can't..There is a lot of gold and
silver in my boat. There is no place for you here."

Love decided to ask Vanity, who was also passing by in
a beautiful vessel, "Vanity, please help me!" "I can't
help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my
boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness
let me go with you." "Oh...Love, I am so sad that I
need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy
that she did not even hear when Love called her!

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take
you." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and
overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder her
name.

When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own
way. Love, realizing how much he owed the elder, asked
Knowledge, another elder, "Who helped me?"

"It was Time", Knowledge answered.

"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?

Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered,
"Because only Time is capable of understanding how
great Love is."

its all about friends!!!!!!!!!!!

A friend is like a flower,
a rose to be exact,
Or maybe like a brand new gate
that never comes unlatched.


A friend is like a heart that goes
strong until the end.
Where would we be in this world
if we didn't have a friend?

Thank you for being such a good

Let it go!!!! T D Jakes advice

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.


I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with
you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,
staying attached to you.
I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.


Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you,
you can't make them stay.


Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person,
it just means that their part in the story is over.


And you've got to know when people's
part in your story is over so that you
don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.


You've got to know when it's over.


Let me tell you something.


I've got the gift of good-bye.

It's the tenth spiritual gift,


I believe in good-bye.


It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have

He'll give it to me.


And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.


Stop begging people to stay.


Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something
that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life,
then you need to ...LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...
LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your
worth...
LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ...
LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or
talents ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude...
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...
LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new
level in Him...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves..
LET IT GO!!!


If you're feeling depressed and stressed ....
LET IT GO!!!


If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling
yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you
need to...
LET IT GO!!!


Let the past be the past.


Forget the former things.


GOD is doing a new thing for 2007 !!!
LET IT GO!!!





Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then
LET IT GO!!!


"The Battle is the Lord's!"


During the next 60 seconds, Stop whatever you are doing, and take
this opportunity. (Literally it is only One minute!) All you have to do is the following: You simply say "The Lords Prayer" for the person that sent you this message:


The Lords Prayer


Our Father,
who art in Heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name,
Thy Kingdom Come,
Thy Will be done,
on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day,
our daily bread
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the Kingdom,
and the Power,
and the Glory,
forever.

Amen.



Next, stop and think and appreciate God's power in your life, for
doing what you know is pleasing to Him.

If you are not ashamed to do this, follow the instructions!

Jesus said, If you are ashamed of me, I will be ashamed of you
before My Father"

luo hospitality

The next tyme you're in a Luo's house, just say you're cool, however hungry or thirsty you may be! I recently paid a visit to a Luo's hao and ended up not having anything to drink despite the offer. Below is how the offer was made:

Question:
"what would you like to have - fruit, juice,soda, tea, chocolate, milo or coffee?
Answer:
"Tea please"
Question:
"Ceylon tea, Herbal tea, Bush tea, Honey Bush tea, Ice tea or Green tea?" Answer:
"Ceylon tea"
Question:
"How would you like it? black or white?"
Answer:
"White"
Question:
Milk,Whitener, or Condensed Milk?"
Answer:
"With Milk"
Question:
"Goat Milk, camel milk, cow milk?"
Answer: "with cow milk please"
Question: "Milk from Freezeland cow or Afrikaner cow?"
Answer: "Jatelo, I will take it black."
Question: "Would you like it with sweetner, sugar or honey?"
Answer: "With Sugar" Question: "Beet sugar or cane sugar?"
Answer: "Cane sugar"
Question: "White, brown or yellow sugar?"
Answer: "Jowa! Forget about tea just give me a glass of water instead." Question: "Mineral water or still water?"
Answer: "Mineral water"
Question: "Flavoured or non-flavoured?"
Answer: "Gee!! I give up just forget about everything

Owada just chunga when you arrive at a Jango's place.
Aiiiii....yawa!
There's a heroIf look inside your heartYou Don't have to be afraidOf what you areThere's an answer


If you reach into your soulAnd the sorrow that you knowWill melt awayAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in youIt's a long roadWhen you face the world aloneNo one reaches out a hand For you to holdYou can find loveIf you search within yourselfAnd the emptiness you felt Will disappearAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in you(ohhhhhh) Lord knowsDreams are hard to followBut Don't let anyoneTear them away (hey yea)Hold onThere will be tomorrowIn time You'll find the waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyAnd the hero comes along With the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When You feel like hope is gone Look inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in yooooooouThat a hero lies innnnnnnnnnn.....yooooooooooooooooou.........Mmm That a hero lies in....yoooooooooooooooooou........
There's a heroIf look inside your heartYou Don't have to be afraidOf what you areThere's an answer


If you reach into your soulAnd the sorrow that you knowWill melt awayAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in youIt's a long roadWhen you face the world aloneNo one reaches out a hand For you to holdYou can find loveIf you search within yourselfAnd the emptiness you felt Will disappearAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in you(ohhhhhh) Lord knowsDreams are hard to followBut Don't let anyoneTear them away (hey yea)Hold onThere will be tomorrowIn time You'll find the waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyAnd the hero comes along With the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When You feel like hope is gone Look inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in yooooooouThat a hero lies innnnnnnnnnn.....yooooooooooooooooou.........Mmm That a hero lies in....yoooooooooooooooooou........
There's a heroIf look inside your heartYou Don't have to be afraidOf what you areThere's an answer


If you reach into your soulAnd the sorrow that you knowWill melt awayAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in youIt's a long roadWhen you face the world aloneNo one reaches out a hand For you to holdYou can find loveIf you search within yourselfAnd the emptiness you felt Will disappearAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in you(ohhhhhh) Lord knowsDreams are hard to followBut Don't let anyoneTear them away (hey yea)Hold onThere will be tomorrowIn time You'll find the waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyAnd the hero comes along With the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When You feel like hope is gone Look inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in yooooooouThat a hero lies innnnnnnnnnn.....yooooooooooooooooou.........Mmm That a hero lies in....yoooooooooooooooooou........
There's a heroIf look inside your heartYou Don't have to be afraidOf what you areThere's an answer


If you reach into your soulAnd the sorrow that you knowWill melt awayAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in youIt's a long roadWhen you face the world aloneNo one reaches out a hand For you to holdYou can find loveIf you search within yourselfAnd the emptiness you felt Will disappearAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in you(ohhhhhh) Lord knowsDreams are hard to followBut Don't let anyoneTear them away (hey yea)Hold onThere will be tomorrowIn time You'll find the waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyAnd the hero comes along With the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When You feel like hope is gone Look inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in yooooooouThat a hero lies innnnnnnnnnn.....yooooooooooooooooou.........Mmm That a hero lies in....yoooooooooooooooooou........
There's a heroIf look inside your heartYou Don't have to be afraidOf what you areThere's an answer


If you reach into your soulAnd the sorrow that you knowWill melt awayAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in youIt's a long roadWhen you face the world aloneNo one reaches out a hand For you to holdYou can find loveIf you search within yourselfAnd the emptiness you felt Will disappearAnd then a hero comes alongWith the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When you feel like hope is goneLook inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in you(ohhhhhh) Lord knowsDreams are hard to followBut Don't let anyoneTear them away (hey yea)Hold onThere will be tomorrowIn time You'll find the waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyAnd the hero comes along With the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears asideAnd you know you can surviveSo When You feel like hope is gone Look inside you and be strongAnd you'll finally see the truthThat a hero lies in yooooooouThat a hero lies innnnnnnnnnn.....yooooooooooooooooou.........Mmm That a hero lies in....yoooooooooooooooooou........

There are names and there are luo names:


Macdonald Viagra Otieno
Rosebud Upstairs Anyango
Sospeter Website Opondi
Solomon Bunsen Burner Obiero
Emily Hotmail Auko
Ludwig Disk Drive Odongo
Tyson Pole Vault Opala
Philgona Pilsner Ice Omollo
Penitentiary Periscope Akinyi
Johnston Hellsgate Ochieng'
Risper Consistent Auma
Boniface State House Okumu
Situation Nyama Bite Odera
Patrobert Flag Post Owiti
Marylyn Wall Unit Aketch
Harrison Sniffer Dog Onyango
Wilson Computer Packages Adoyo
Sharp Knife Oduor
Brimstone Al Qaeda Adoyo
Pathfinder Ogolla
Constitution Ochoutho
Penina Hallucination Akinyi
Malcolm Stupendous Oloo
Mildred Windows XP Atieno
Delamere Millennium Bug Otieno
Larry King Live Otieno
Stella Partition Oduor
Joseph Refaradum Donde
Theophelus Mentally Challenged Opiyo
Barnabas Litmus Paper Aketch
Augustine Bill Gates Ocholla
Hayati Action Pact Okello
Roselyn State-of-the-Art Achieng
Ludicrous Silicon Valley Auma
Atkinson Homeland Security Ohonge
Johnson Ant i-virus Okelo
POEM
Koro y'all I want to resait a poem for you and I wish you were there to watch me...
When Kisum bekem a siti, lek victoria bekem an osen
When Kisum bekem a siti all the mbuta in the lek bekem whales
When Kisum bekem a siti all fising boats bekem sips
When Kisum bekem a siti all omena bekem saks
When Kisum bekem a siti, all fisamen became sip captains _________________________________________________________________
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am glad you are my friend

My Mom always told me that we could never measure our wealth by money but by our friends. She would surely be glad to meet you and know how rich I turned out to be!
Tiny but wonderful seeds of blessings are sprinkled on earth each day...and I just caught one that's so nice and true..
And it's you!


I may have forgotten to say that I care. I may have failed to open up and share, but though no words have been spoken, my promise of friendship won't be broken .
Time and distance are important between friends. When a friend is in your heart, they remain there forever. I may be busy, but I assure you, you are always in my heart!

Friends are like the walls of a house. Sometimes they hold you up, sometimes you lean on them. But sometimes, it's enough to know they're just standing by.

If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them; I'd be at the bottom to catch them.

One tree can start a forest, one smile can start a friendship.
One touch can show you care, one friend can make
life worth living for.

A smile makes us look younger... while friends make us feel stronger... and they make us enjoy life.

after the fairy tale

every girl longs for the first love, the first kiss and the first whisper of the three precious words" i love you". its always thought about how the prince charming will appear and carry you on his flying white horse.i am no exception.
my prince charming came at the most unexpected time. i was a fresh fresher on my way to campus. i arrived at the bus park only to find that the person who was to pick me up had been caught in an emergency. i was tired, dirty and hungry, the typical damsel in distress. i did not know who to turn to and i sat there wishing that the ground would open up and swallow me.
then i saw him, tall dark and handsome with a smile that could cure a heartache. he offered to help me and trust me, that is the day i stated believing that angels do exist.he helped me settle down and find a hostel and at least i became comfortable.
it was just a friendship but things took a different turn. see, i thought, after reading many fairy tales, that people were only supposed to have problems before they admitted they had feelings for each other. it happened to Cinderella, snow white and Rapunzel.so, one night we both confessed and as they say.....the rest is history.
the next few months were heaven to me and i was in cloud nine. however, not all things are meant to last. i became pushy and did not want him to go out.i felt bad when he left me alone in the house. i missed him terribly when he went for business tours.then the lies started. i found numbers in his jeans, he was talking in his sleep and there were later in my mail. i could not comprehend what was going on.....
finally, he admitted that he was seeing someone else. this hit me like a heart attack .it was hard for me to imagine it.i knew he was unfaithful and it killed me inside to know that he was happy with some other gal. i tried all tricks in the book, i begged, threatened,cried but all in vain. finally, in the midst of the pain and anger, i had to let go.
all said and done, i was left with one question.....how could an angel break my heart?

Friday, December 7, 2007

simple me

its hard to be born a girl more so a last born in a large family. i was everything but a quiet girl.many at times my family would have preferred to call me a Tommy girl. i was nothing compared to what i am today.
only one thing kept me going, the strength of i can. see, i am a precarious child. i was born with tretatology of fallot. forgive my french that means a hole in the heart. as a result i was not expected to live long. i suffered from many complications. my lips were always red and you would think i had permanent lipstick. my fingers were clubbed, my hair was brown in colour. as a matter of fact no one expected me to live past ten years old. i was living on bargained years.
i underwent an open heart surgery that corrected my condition. i could now smile, play act and jump like all the other children. many who knew me called it a miracle, many who know me call me a living testimony.
i believe in Celine Dion's words"deep within each heart there lies a magic spark that lights up the fire of all creation...since the dawn of man, the strength of just i can has brought together people of all nations...." don't know all the words bu there are some sentences which goes like"heal our hearts forever more, teaching lessons we must learn to bring us closer to the power of a dream....."
my dream is to become one of the greatest writers of my time. whats yours? a friend of mine once told me that your dream is your passion, your passion is what you can talk about for hours and never get bored. Challenge: post me your dream, id like to hear about it.
finally, don't laugh at your friends dreams. people who don't have dreams don't have much...